Mallory Jane

Children are loving reminders of what we are really here for.

Sunday, May 06, 2007

A Nice Quiet Day

When you or a family member are in the hospital you forget what day it is and what time it is. You also forget there are really people who work Monday-Friday. The weekends at the hospital are so quiet! There isn't the large number of "White Coats" walking the halls as on a weekday. This is very nice. Saturday was a very busy, but quiet day. Mallory continued to do well when her vent settings were lowered. She had a line taken out of her groin, and she participated in her Chest Percussion Therapy (CPT). She was awake most of the day and at 5pm decided to finally take a rest.

Scott and I made the hard decision that it was time for him to go home for a week. Logan and Madison have a concert at school and Madison's 6th birthday is coming up, so she is having a friend birthday party, Scott also has to catch up on some work and farm things. When Scott was out of Mallory's room getting something to eat I had a little talk with my nursing friends. I asked if it was against the rules to hold Mallory while she was intabated. She was laying in bed reaching her arms out to us to be held and I couldn't stand it any longer. You know what they said? They said GO FOR IT! :) When Scott got back to the room the stage was set and I told him he was going to hold his little girl. I wanted Scott to do the first holding since he didn't get to see her prior to her going into surgery. You should have seen his face! He was so excited! You would have thought I just told him I bought him a new backhoe. With the help of three nurses, Burt, Tara and Corrie,to move Mallory and all her "stuff" that is attached she was in her Daddy's arms and so content. She even slept for awhile. Daddy didn't want to let go of her either.

Since we knew Scott would be going home I had called my Mom. So Larry, Marilyn and my Uncle Bob Brown came to St. Louis on Saturday. Uncle Bobby came to ride home with my dad. Thanks Bobby!! My Mom is going to stay with Mallory and I for the week. This way I can spend the night at the hospital with Mallory and when my mom gets to the hospital in the morning, I can go shower and she will stay with Mal. Scott is planning to bring Logan and Madison to STL with him on Saturday so they can see Mallory and me.

This morning (Saturday) Mallory was weighed and she is now 10.8kg. Take that times 2.2 and you have her weight in pounds. :) The vent and nitrous have been decreased (Vent to 8 and Nitrous to 1 for those medical people reading) and Mallory is a pooping machine! She has pooped 5 times already today. It's so nice I get a break from taking care of the poop. The nurses change the diapers and then have to weigh them to chart Mallory's output for the day.

The plan for the rest of Saturday is to continue to take the baby steps. Turn the Nitrous off, continue to go down on vent Rate and peep, and plan on doing pressure support. Pressure support is when they turn the vent and peep almost off, let Mallory do the breathing on her own and only give her the support when she absolutely needs it. The doctors would like the vent to come out on Monday. Mallory will also start some Physical Therapy on Monday so we can get her moving again.

A good friend of mine, Jo Schmidt, sent these words of encouragement to me. "The will of God will never take you where the power of God will not protect you". I remind myself and Mallory of this each day. God's blessings to you all!!

14 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh Wendy, I wish I could put into words how reading this post moved me. I'm just picturing Scott holding Mallory, and how he must of felt. And you, watching. You must know that just being in her daddys lap again was probably the best she's felt in a long time. So safe. So loved.
Keep it up Mallory! you're getting there.
Take care Wendy.
Tammy Mason

9:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This posting brought tears to my eyes. We are so excited for you all. What an amazing parting gift for Scott. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. Take care in St. Louis and in the upcoming travels.

Andy, Jocelyn (Janssen), and Clara Pearson

10:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Mallory and Family,
I just talked to Michelle as she got off the phone with you, Wendy. She is so glad that you two have each others empathetic ear being HPLH mom's. Be strong and know that Mallory and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep up the day by day baby steps!
The ABCDE Steiner Family
Hartington, NE

11:01 AM  
Blogger anniepie said...

Mallory,

I'm so glad your daddy got to hold you in his arms. I'm sure it felt so good for the both of you. Continue with your babysteps girl, so your mommy and daddy can have more squeezes!!!

Anniepie

12:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Mallory ... you are such a fighter! What an amazing little girl. Keep taking those babysteps!
Glad to hear you are making such good progress.

We'll keep you and your family in our prayers!

1:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

We live in Canton and have been keeping track of Mallory, and Avery, we have been praying for Mallory and her families, and Avery and his family also. Congratulations on all her,(not baby steps), but big big girl steps. We will keep track of her. Keep up the big steps Mallory. I know that it had to mean a lot to her to be held by dad, and mom later. The Baker Family, Canton, MO

1:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great day for ALL, welcome g'ma Marilyn!! The posts just keep getting more exciting with each passing day, appreciate them so much...take good care, hugs -- The Shipps

2:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How fantastic to hear that Daddy got to hold his baby girl before he has to go home. I read this everyday and it is so great to hear about these fantastic BIG HUGE steps... they may seem little, but that little girl is marching, not tip toe-ing. We'll continue to keep you in our prayers.

The Leuenbergers

3:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wendy,

I am so thankfull to be a member of the extended Meuller family. You are an amazing woman and inspire me to want to be a better person. After reading your last posting, I can see why GOD trusted you and Scott with such a sweet precious baby girl. I pray for ALL of you each and everyday. I can't wait to see Mal along side all "the little ones" in tne church hall at Thanksgiving. Tell Scott Pork had another drink for him today!

Take Care,
Laura (Mrs. Pork)

3:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Our hearts are overflowing with joy and excitement after reading your latest update!! I'm sure Mallory loved finally being able to be in daddy's arms again and is anxious to have mommy in that spot too! We send our love and prayers for a week filled with hope and healing.

All our love,
~The Bernards

3:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wendy, I just read your wonderful update for the day! I'll bet Scott was in seventh heaven when he got to hold Mallory. Just like holding her for the first time. I bet it was BETTER than a backhoe!! What wonderful baby steps she is taking. They are becoming giant steps. You guys are the greatest parents!! Keep the faith and know that we are sending lots of prayers, hugs, and kisses for your whole family. Take care.

Ruth & Dean Lamb

5:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Because of you, I'm hugging longer, reading more stories, playing more catch, talking more, taking more time for tucking in...I'm learning never to take a single second for granted. Thanks for a great reminder of what is really important in life. Praying for all of you!

7:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wendy,Scott,Logan,Madison and Mallory,
We are so thankful that you share your journey with us.It is an incredible faith building experience and such a blessing for us to be part of your church family! We miss you and love you all and wait for the day you come home to us again!
Love,
Steve and Debbie Bennett

8:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wendy, you made me cry again! Mallory, keep taking those baby steps. You have so many people praying for you. My sister was here from Colorado last week and read your blog. Yesterday she asked for your website so that she, too, can keep up on your recovery. Take good care of Grandma Marilyn. We are all praying for you at Prince of Peace!
Betty Hladky

10:32 AM  

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