Mallory Jane

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Thursday, May 03, 2007

Step By Step

On Wednesday the doctors fianlly realized that Mallory can only tolerate one change at a time, something her Daddy and I have been saying all along. :) They decided to take it easy on her and start the process of thaking the Nitris off. By 1pm it was off and she was holding steady. By 4:30 pm her oxygen saturation levels had dropped, and by 5:30 pm she was back on just a "wiff" of nitris. The doctors told us this was not a step backwards, and a lot of transplants need that, and she is continuing to make progress. She is retaining a lot of fluid. Dr. Canter was calling her Rocky because her eyes were so swollen, so they have given her extra doses of medicine to make her pee. Pee away Mallory, pee away!!

I just think Mallory is sick and tired of having her picture taken. When Radiology came in this morning to get her chest x-ray, she vomited. We got her bathed and sheets changed, Radiology came back for one more picture and sure enough, she puked again. After one more bath, this time with a hair wash, her nurse and I decided the rule for the next few hours was going to be "NO TOUCHY DA BABY". This all happened around 4am so she had a few hours before the doctors all came to see her during rounds at 7am.

One area of concern for Mallory right now is if there is fluid built up in, or around her lungs. Thus the extra x-ray. As of this writing we do not know what the result of the x-ray is. If the fluid is between the chest wall and the lungs they will have to insert a chest tube to drain everything off. We will just have to wait and see.

Mallory's heart boyfriend, Avrey, is going home today!! Hooray for Avrey!! He had his first biopsy on Tuesday and results came back showing no rejection of his new heart. He will continue to be monitored in the clinic at SLCH. They will be back next Thursday for the clinic appointment so we will see him then. We continue to pray for Avrey and his parents and wish them nothing but the best. If you would like to get to know Avrey, his web site is: http://groups.msn.com/AvreysBrokenHeart/ Check them out and see what an outstanding family they are!

Today we are hoping to get the rest of the extra fluid off of Mallory that needs to go, and to start going down on her vent settings in hope of getting that tube out in the next few days. When she is awake she is very aware of what is going on and who is in the room. It breaks my heart when she tries to talk but can't because of the vent tube, or when she cries and no sound come out but there is a tear and she contracts her face and body. Yesterday we put her favorite DVD in, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. When she heard Mickey say "Hi, I'm Mickey Mouse" her eyes lit up and she moved her head to find the TV screen. :) Baby steps, baby steps.

Thank you again to everyone for the comments and words of love and support you post on this site. Scott and I love reading them! Thanks also for the little snipits into Logan and Madison's day. I can't tell you how much Scott and I are missing them. They are missing us too. As Logan has said on occasion, right now it's all about Mallory but it doesn't make it any easier on the other kids. Thank you to everyone who is helping Logan and Madison get through this very difficult time as well. Much love to you all!!

18 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott and Wendy,
Sometimes baby steps seem to take so long. There are times when the baby steps seem to last forever and you think "that stage" will never pass, but soon it does. Then there is another stage that requires more baby steps, some with joy and some with sorrow. And then before you know it those baby steps seem so long ago. All baby steps require lots of love and patience. I know that you are top knotch at both these things. Keep being the great parents you are, get as much rest as you can and draw strength from each other and God. You are doing the best you can right now. You will soon be rejoicing because you have moved on to other steps. Give Mal a hug and kiss for me and I'll pray she can be off the vent soon.
Love, Robyn

8:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't tell you how many times a day I check this website to see if there are updates. Everytime Pat calls me from Omaha, she asks if there is anymore news. You are doing a great job of keeping everyone updated. Our prayers continue for Mallory that she will steadily improve and will be home before you know it. We are also very much keeping the two of you along with Logan & Maddie in our prayers as well. God has blessed you with a great family and many friends to help you through this difficult time. Stay strong. Before you know it, this will all be a memory and the five of you will all be home together again.
All our love,
Gene, Pat & Family

8:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott & Wendy,

I was thinking the other day, that when Chris was 5 (in Kindergarten), his big sister was 7 and his little sister was 6 months, his mom had a huge heart surgery, and the kids all stayed at their aunt and uncles for six weeks. Chris has been through a lot of what Madison & Logan are going through right now.

As adults, they talk about their time with Aunt Kay & Uncle Dan and their cousins with such fondness and love. At the time, they simply understood what was necessary and they did it. They remember feeling very secure. Leave it to kids to take the complexity out of it and just live!

I am sure that Logan & Madison will also look back at this time as a very special time in their lives where they felt loved, cared for and prayed for. They have a great family support system!

I'll quit now -- sorry this is a long message!
We're always praying --
Jan Moore
ps - Pee Mallory! Pee Pee Pee!

9:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for all the updates, Wendy you do such an excellent job explaining everything and I think it is so neat that you add a little humor now and then. Keep Strong and know there are sooooo many thoughts and prayers going out to your whole family.
Love, Pat Johnson

9:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you all have walked miles in baby steps the past week. I am sure it doesn't feel like it, but you have! There is no doubt that Mallory is a fighter, and I know she is drawing strength from seeing her mommy and daddy by her side when she is awake (and of course, Mickey too:) We continue to pray that she is able to get rid of the fluid and go off the vent. We continue to pray that you and Scott take care of yourselves as you take care of her. We continue to pray that Logan and Madison hang in there while you are gone. And we continue to pray that the days pass quickly until Mallory walks out the door of the hospital!

Love, John, Cheryl and Aaron

10:52 AM  
Blogger Justin said...

Scott and Wendy,

Mom gave me this address and thanks so much for keeping us updated. We are thinking and praying for you, your family, and especially Mallory.

Justin, Melissa, & Emma Apel

11:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know it's heart breaking when Mallory can't talk; but, what a marvelous gift that she is aware and recognizes voices and sounds! I'll keep praying. Stay strong!

Love,Judy Rippe

12:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott,Wendy and family,
I just heard about the Mallory Jane website and pretty much spent all morning at work catching up on the happenings with Mallory and her new heart! Whenever I am down in Syracuse I always try to catch up on the new updates regarding Mallory and your family. May God bless you all and keep the faith. I know Mallory is a strong little girl who will make it through this, especially having two wonderful parents who are just as strong! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care and I will now be checking everyday for updates!
Karla Kastens

1:11 PM  
Blogger kellie pope said...

our thoughts and prayers are with you,thinking of you always. Ben,Kellie,Kyler and Keegan Pope

2:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Justdoin' my daily check in on your updates; Madison keeps Baillee quite filled in, and Logan gave me the run-down at Baseball on Monday...Keep the baby steps comin', and darnit, let's get that little girl to pee::))
Hang in there -- The Shipps

2:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott & Wendy - I've been trying to keep up on how Mallory is doing. I asked so many times what the latest news was, that Barb finally got tired of me asking, and gave me your website. You do a great job of keeping everyone up-to-date, and it is appreciated!

I don't have any great wisdom to impart to you. Just know that sometimes you just need to get thru the next hour, and then the next day, and then the next week, etc. God is there helping you thru this. Rick and I are keeping your family in our prayers, and will continue to do so.

You and Scott need to take care of yourselves during all of this, too. Once Mallory is feeling better and is getting around, you'll need your strength to keep up with her!

I just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you.

Janene Heyen

3:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott & Wendy
Madison got off the bus at the high school to meet Sarah while Logan went to practice. I just wanted to reach out and hug Madison, but thought that might be a little much since she doesn't really know me. : ) So just let her be Sarah's little shadow.
Thanks for all your updates. Keep taking those baby steps and we'll keep praying that soon you will be able to look back and see how far you actually have come.
Susan

3:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Today the guidance lesson in kindergarten was to "find your something beautiful". Madison had so much FUN with this! She talked about her earrings, necklace and ring, her new swim suit, and especially her "program dress"! She can't wait to wear it! When I told her I will be looking for her on stage to see it in person, her eyes absolutely sparkled! Logan and Madison are little lights in my day. Every time I pass them, they shoot that Mueller smile and I too just want to reach out and HUG them! They know that they are "hugged" by all of you each and every day--even if there are so many miles between you. Our prayers are hugging you always.

Love,
The Agena's

4:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott & Wendy
Thanks for the updates.We are
thinking and praying for all of you.Take care. The Slafters

5:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Scott and Wendy,
I just recently got your address and check regularly to read how things are going. Know that we are all thinking and praying for Mallory and family.
Joanna Zastera :)

6:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wendy & Scott,
I don't know how you do it. When you described how Mallory wanted to talk and cry and the tear rolled down her cheek. I went with my granddaughters to their checkup and they got shots and cried and just that about made me cry! It's got to be so hard for you! Just keep being so strong for her. She is so strong and doing great, with you as parents what else could she be.

Keep keeping us updated. I look every day to see how little Mallory is doing and keep you in my prayer.

Love, Renee

7:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wendy, Scott, and Mallory,
Your strength is emmense and God's love radiates through your words to us all. Although our walks are far from identical, Pam and I remember our journey with Ashton as we read what you all are going through. We had a follow up with Dr. Martin the other day and I wanted to go down the hall to find you...I picked up the kids from gymnastics tonight and looked for you. We read every night with hope and wonder as to your journey..and most often our eyes well with tears as we reach out in love and support. You are an inspiration to so many in so many ways!

On this National Day of Prayer, please feel the power of so many of these wonderful people praying for you all! Our hearts, prayers, thoughts, and love go out to each and every one of you.

God bless!
Shawn, Pam, Emma, Hunter & Ashton Traudt

7:46 PM  
Blogger becky said...

Wendy,
My mom (Kathy Matthews) told me what was going on with your daughter. I am so sorry for your family and for your little girl. As a mother now myself I can't even image what you are feeling. But it sounds like brighter days are ahead of you all. I am thinking of you and your little Mallory. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope tomorrow and the everyday after that gets better and better for you all so that you can bring your little girl home. I always wanted to tell you thank you for everything you did for me when I was younger. You made a difference in my life and I can't thank you enough. Again my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Becky (Matthews) Sherman

1:54 PM  

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